tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8296535172181563270.post3118970407295111058..comments2023-10-04T05:44:16.989-04:00Comments on listen with your heart. speak with love.: Sometimes, I just want to be his Mommy...Christian and Lily's Mommyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00907650985364910773noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8296535172181563270.post-63596106672589617002007-12-06T08:44:00.000-05:002007-12-06T08:44:00.000-05:00We haven't even started EI therapy yet, but I alre...We haven't even started EI therapy yet, but I already feel like more of a nurse/teacher to Nolan some days than a mommy. I know it will calm down over time, but it can be so overwhelming some days. And he's only in the moderate range! "We Will Rock You" might be an unusual lullaby, but it is the only song that really gets his attention (i.e. that he hears well) with the whole hand-clapping beat. I was watching "The Baby Human" on Discovery Health the other day and they showed a 3 month old turning to sound. Nolan doesn't turn to sound AT ALL- it kind of makes me sad that there are already some differences. And it makes me even more antsy to get his hearing aids! I don't wait well, lol.leahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05004783118268323560noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8296535172181563270.post-35224746395221689642007-12-05T15:05:00.000-05:002007-12-05T15:05:00.000-05:00I've been there as well (more so w/ my oldest, tha...I've been there as well (more so w/ my oldest, than now). I think there will be time to be both. - Mom and teacher. What I find funny now, is that some of what I did w/ Delaney, my oldest, is just so ingrained in me, that I do it without thinking w/ our youngest- it just feels 'normal' now. Of course, that means I get funny looks from people every once in awhile, when I'm constantly talking to Trey, and we're 'parroting' , but oh well :) I can live w/ that! <BR/><BR/>Hang in there, and just know that there will always be good days, and bad days, but the good days WILL out number the bad ones :)Loudest Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10343661791647770742noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8296535172181563270.post-84860703993121882072007-12-05T11:20:00.000-05:002007-12-05T11:20:00.000-05:00I love this post. And I can totally relate!Sometim...I love this post. <BR/><BR/>And I can totally relate!<BR/><BR/>Sometimes, though, you really do need to take some time to "just be his mommy". You will both benefit from a little downtime. <BR/><BR/>I know that is easier said than done, though.Mom to Toeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13261371980274169860noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8296535172181563270.post-81233291079797649052007-12-04T15:36:00.000-05:002007-12-04T15:36:00.000-05:00Breathe in, breathe out. Every day will be like th...Breathe in, breathe out. Every day will be like this, highs and lows, but knowing you (kind of), you will focus on the highs...that's what moms do. You will get used to being his teacher and all of the moments you have together will help to create a stronger than average mother/child bond, trust me. It will take time, but you will find your mommy role will be a combination of the two...it will become natural. And the husbands will not "get it" like the moms do, but they will be an integral part in helping you remain sane...if they do their job. If you are a stay at home mom, only you will understand what your son is trying to say, you will develop a sort of esp that your husband won't grasp, in the beginning. But if you try to make your husband feel a part of it without getting too frustrated, he will slowly begin to understand...never completely, but just enough to maintain the equilibrium in the house that is so needed for a child with a disability. Ups and downs, ups and downs...remember to focus on the ups, because from what I have been reading, there are a lot of them for that adorable boy...big hug, use your blog, it will help you blow off steam,JodiAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11437710259566671762noreply@blogger.com